February 2012
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Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your...
Uh, I guess that it’s forced communication in a lot of instances. Stuff people would be willing to ignore normally gets brought up when you’re pushing for sexual practices that could backfire and kill you.
-d.
It’s certainly more fun when you know what you like.
-j.
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Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are...
the entire fucking scene.
-d.
I’m going to go Tumblr specific: Not enough pictures of fat girls doing things I enjoy looking at. Not enough fat lesbians, either while I’m at it.
-j.
“But pain is hard to put into words and in life there is always pain. It’s as...”
– Pack Up the Moon by Anna McPartlin (via quote-book)
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Day 17: What misconception about kinky people...
the one we create for ourselves, of being EXCITING AND COOL AND DIFFERENT instead of just … people who fuck slightly differently.
-d.
Hm. I’m not fond of how people continue to bring up D/s as anti-feminist, as if you can’t be both a sub and a feminist.
-j.
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Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of...
Excruciating guilt and self-loathing. Constant feeling of being a fraud, or deceiving myself because I’m just “trying to be interesting” (I take criticism a little too far on board). The feeling that asking anything of anyone is a grave imposition and that I will be rejected for it doesn’t help; it’s actually easier to deal with external people being judgemental (so I...
irrationallyarousedbydescriptionsofbloodshed.tumblr...
that’s what this tumblr would be called. if there was space.
-d.
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Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious...
STICK NEEDLES IN ME NOW
-d.
Someone recently described this blog as for “romantics, queers and blood fetishists” which is basically a set of things I would like to try in combination.
-j.
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thirdmindmovement asked: Vee has told me that you're a fan of the series Rome. Don't you wish Lucius Vorenus and Titus Pullo would have angry hate sex?
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Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink...
In my fantasies I ACTUALLY GET LAID. *tantrum* um. there are areas in which it has to differ because no sane person will do the things my brain things it wants; some of them are outright illegal, and some of them are very dangerous. I don’t think in reality I DO want broken bones, but the idea of them is very enticing.
I suspect it is always messier in reality, there are more things to go...
