We don't like devices and "naughty little girls". we don't like Mistress Domino and her PVC couture. We really don't like rape fantasies. But we like pictures of people being beaten, and people who are happy to be hurt and tied up.

Most of all, we love blood. This tumblr recognises no line between "erotica", "porn", and "gore".

[and whips would only make it worse / don't tempt the lonely and perverse] - The Divine Comedy, Through The Long and Sleepless Night

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Feb 26, 2012
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Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

In my fantasies I ACTUALLY GET LAID. *tantrum* um. there are areas in which it has to differ because no sane person will do the things my brain things it wants; some of them are outright illegal, and some of them are very dangerous. I don’t think in reality I DO want broken bones, but the idea of them is very enticing. 

I suspect it is always messier in reality, there are more things to go wrong, the temperature is different, there are accidents and incidents, fuck-ups, failures, confusion, arrhythmic hitting, all sorts. But then reality is REAL. That’s quite important.

-d.

Yes. Obviously. Real life everything varies from fantasy everything. One of the worst things in the world is people who can’t grasp the difference between fantasy/fiction and reality.

-j.